You’ve both decided you like one another enough to go on the second date. We think that’s great! But before you rush into anything, we suggest you view your next encounter as an extension of the first date. Let’s call it the “second first date.” The editors at eHarmony suggest you “think of it as version 1.5 of a new software release—mostly the same, but with slight upgrades and a few of the bugs worked out. For instance, the worst of the awkward uncertainty is behind you. You’ve settled the question of compatibility on the most basic level—neither of you counted the seconds until the evening ended. So far so good. But not nearly good enough to disable your firewall and hand over your password.”
