Then there’s question about finances. What should a modern woman pay for on dates? All of us have our personal beliefs system about how men and women should split the bills on dates. Typically, most men will pay for a first date, but what happens on the second date? MoneyCrashers.com suggests that on the second, third or fourth date you should still continue to offer to pay. While he may not allow you to put down your credit card, it’s good to show you are willing. We wish you the best of luck on date two and remember, dating is a long-distance marathon, not a sprint. Pace yourself, or else you’ll burn out on the second mile.