Next, be sure not to tell him too much about yourself just yet. “Going on about past relationships, health or debt problems, and hinting at wanting to get married are all buzzkills for a guy,” said Diana Kirschner, PhD, author of Love in 90 Days in a Cosmopolitan interview. Talk about your hobbies, crazy travel stories and avoid monologues.  This will allow him the opportunity for him to open up as well.

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