One day he gazes into your eyes a little too long when he hands you the latest report at work. Or he gives you a back rub when you mention you’re so tired all the time. You feel his breath down your neck. There is sexual tension between you and it’s come to the point where you can’t get him out of your mind. Seeing him becomes the pinnacle of each one of your days. He gives you the excitement your marriage lacks. And today, he’s asked to you meet him for coffee after work.
You know perfectly well that having coffee is the gateway to being unfaithful, for cheating on your spouse. As long as you tell yourself you’re just friends, you can get away with it. But we both know what he wants, and especially, what you want! Following are your two choices and what can happen either way.