MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL
And let’s be real. Sometimes we’re the passive-aggressor. “Passive-aggressive behaviors can take different forms such as in procrastination, avoidance, and paralysis,” says Perez-Litwin. “If you find yourself in a situation engaging in any of these behaviors but also feeling guilty or angry about it, that can signal some red flags,” she adds. When you have a hunch that you’re the instigator, review your own words. Choose them wisely. What kind of points are you looking to score? Look inward.