You have a solid relationship with your spouse. Your sexual and emotional life are just fine, although perhaps not as steamy as it used to be. Now you have a routine, kids, financial responsibilities, in laws to deal with …
For a while now you’ve been toying with an idea that you cannot and will not admit even to yourself. There is another man. He came into your life when you least expected it. He may be a colleague at work, a friend, even your new boss. Heck, he could be your husband’s best friend! The fact is, when you see him you feel butterflies in your stomach and when you’re in bed with your spouse, perhaps have sexual fantasies that involve him. You may even flirt with him slightly, just to feel better about yourself. After all, there is no danger in that, as long as you don’t take it any further.
