2. They like to have a choice.
From the moment they realize they have any sort of control, kids like to make their own decisions. Psychologists say autonomy is a powerful motivator. We just call it annoying. It typically starts when kids begin eating, which is a gloriously messy and frustrating process for everyone involved. Suddenly your child refuses to touch anything green or clumpy. But if you give them a choice between peas or carrots, they’ll pick one. And by giving them that independence, you’re putting the power in their hands. But since you’re providing the options, you’re still in charge. Who’s a sneaky mommy? You’re a sneaky mommy!
