Look down at your purse. Now try to lift it up with just a few fingers. Can’t do it can you? If your heavy bag is so large and so heavy that it’s approaching the size and weight of a carry-on suitcase then you need to make a change, stat. Sure, large tote bags are in style, and they seem like a blessing if you are always on-to-go and trying to multi-task (and therefore need a lot of stuff at all times).