When you ask for help, don’t feel guilty or fearful of being bothersome. You should not beg or talk to the other person about your fear of not finding another job. Before contacting anyone, rehearse the conversation until you find an assertive tone that is both firm and polite. Use psychology to your advantage! Research shows people are most flexible at around 3pm, so try to make your inquiries around then. Also, think about calling on a stress-free Thursday, rather than a harried, hated Monday.
Above all, stay positive about the chapter ahead of you. Times are tough for everyone, it’s true, but a positive attitude will keep desperation at bay and allow you to grow and thrive, ending up happier than you ever were at your former job!
