Give her a break. Offer to stay with her family member while she goes and gets her nails done, goes for a long walk on the beach, of just gets out of the house for a few hours. It’s just a few hours sacrifice for you, but it will mean a world of difference to the caregiver. Take her to lunch. And make sure there’s lot of wine! Caregivers give up so much of themselves; just a nice lunch out with plenty of laughter and girl-talk can make her feel like herself again—the version of herself that has other things to think about than getting prescriptions filled and changing adult diapers. If the person she cares for can’t be left alone, find a friend to stay with him or her for a few hours.