Commit and Write It Down
Above all, if you want to make good, moral, kind decisions about the things that matter to you, you need to commit to that mindset. Some of us can mentally commit and hold ourselves to that promise, but other people need to make their goals a little more visible. Write down what you plan to do, and post those commitments somewhere public, so a) you don’t forget what you set out to do and b) you hold yourself accountable.