Entries by Alisa Valdes

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Best Shopping Sites for Kids’ Clothes

Tips to find the best shopping sites for kids’ clothes. They are constantly growing out of them, so better not spend too much money, right? The cold front blew into New Mexico last week with razor-sharp teeth. We’ve been wondering when it was going to actually get cold this year, and now we know. Now. […]

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Preserving Your Own Identity While Being a Mom

There was a you, before you had children. Maybe she liked posing for racy smartphone photos, or taking cooking classes, or dancing to reggaeton on the bar with her friends at the local watering hole. She probably even liked sex. You know who she was, but if you’re like many mamis, you can’t quite remember […]

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Should Your Kids Have a Cell Phone?

A recent study by the American Academy of Pediatrics says that three-quarters of all American teens have cell phones. Research by the academy indicates that most of these kids are getting these phones in middle school and, increasingly, even earlier than that. The widespread use of cell phones by children raises important questions for parents. […]

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Is Your Child Ready for Her First Sleepover?

Slumber party, sleepover, spending the night. Whatever you call it, the all-night play date with a friend (or group of friends) is sort of a rite of passage in American culture. It’s a chance for your growing child to exercise some nocturnal independence while (hopefully) still being under the watchful eye of caring and responsible […]

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Teaching Your Kids to Appreciate What They Have

UPDATED: August 1st, 2016 Houston businesswoman Anna Sykes says she felt neglected as a child. Now a mother herself, Sykes has gone out of her way to give her daughter Nia, 9, everything she never had. To her surprise, this approach has backfired. Nia’s not appreciative, says Sykes. She’s insatiable and feels entitled.

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Teaching Our Kids to Learn From Failure

I’ll never forget the crushing loss my son’s basketball team suffered last year, at the hands of a school that seemed to be made up of gigantic, mutant, bearded sixth graders. The other guys, clearly jacked up on nuclear waste and steroids, motored up and down the court like monstrous machines, and scored almost into […]