They say that Latinos love women with a little meat on their bones. Something to grab onto, say my tios, cousins, and even mi abuelo. So it comes as no surprise that I had trouble getting the attention of Dominicanos, Cubanos, and Colombians. Once upon a time I had a flat butt and straight hips. […]
It’s the day after Valentine’s Day and you’re either full of love or disappointment. Your Valentine did exactly what you desired. He took you to your favorite restaurant, looking dapper while opening doors for you. Or he forgot it was Valentine’s Day until a woman on the train poked his eye out with her bouquet […]
Growing up, I learned how to communicate with men by watching telenovelas and witnessing my mother and father argue. That’s why instead of having a mature dialogue with a partner, I’d drink, scream, and give him the evil eye. How could I express my feelings logically? Romper platos and sob was all the rage on […]
I first ventured into the world of online dating at 28. It was right after a break-up and I was tired of sobbing in between bites of Haagen-Dazs ice cream. With trepidation, I set up a profile to meet a potential match. I hyped myself up, selling myself like a used car dealer whose home […]
I’ve never been “Facebook official,” as the youngins call it. And it hasn’t been by choice. My last boyfriend was a private person. He rarely posted status updates on Facebook. When he did, it was usually to talk of his love of coffee or hatred towards morning traffic. I respected his nature. I accepted him […]
UPDATED August 1st, 2016 Mami rarely butts into my love life. That’s because I’ve taught Mami, as well as my familia, to respect my relationships. Like most Latina mamas, Mami once ransacked my drawers, and accused me of “slutty” behavior when she found condoms. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. My sister, or […]
I recently moved out of Mami’s New York City apartment and into an apartment of my very own in Los Angeles. Do you know what that means? I am free! Free of Mami’s disorganized and utterly boggling kitchen. Free of her rearranging my things. Free of her nagging me to wear a coat, take the […]
Spring is about personal growth, new beginnings. But before flowers bloom and life flourishes there is death; there are endings, and this is true of relationships too. How do you know which should end or remain? How do you nourish your love and friendship ties during this inspiring time? Here are some tips on how […]
You’re attending a family affair and are tired of answering your Tia’s million dollar question: Why are you still single? Even though you may be perfectly satisfied with your single status, it would be nice to shut everyone up for one night. Imagine the looks you’ll get when sauntering in with a stunning date. Think […]