How-to-Live-Life-With-No-Regrets1Emma chose not to tell her spouse about the affair and to work on herself and her relationship instead. “I still haven’t completely forgiven myself. And I don’t want to wreck my family. It’s a hard burden to bear. One thing that’s changed: I won’t ever judge women who have affairs. But if they asked me whether it’s worth it, I have the answer for them: no, it’s not.”

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