9. You’re Also a Busybody
That’s right, think Gladys Kravitz on Bewitched, Martha Huber on Desperate Housewives or Georgina on Gossip Girl. They make great TV characters but terrible real-life role models.

10. You Seem Insecure
Building yourself up by tearing other people down may make you feel powerful but it sure doesn’t make you look powerful. Eventually everyone will see that your manipulations and put-downs are just masking your own insecurity.