Breastfeeding is hard, really hard. The books, videos, and even mothers who have done it seem to always say what a lovely, rewarding experience nursing is. So often, the difficulties are left out and are only discovered by the poor new mommy as she’s trying to figure out how to care for her little bundle of joy. It’s time for a little reality check on breastfeeding; here’s what no one tells you, what you need to know, and how to overcome those difficult moments.