When it comes to nailing birthday surprises, be smart about your cover story for your friend, family member or partner. Most people will know if something is up if you pretend to totally forget their birthday. And aside from the fact that it’s not really believable, it’s also kind of mean to convince someone you care about that you totally forgot about him or her on a special day. While the big surprise might be an amazing moment, all of the disappointment leading up to the reveal will not be worth it. So instead, “tell them you’re planning something for just the two of you. You can keep that info to yourself and let them think that’s “the big surprise.” But in case that’s not enough, have an idea up your sleeve,” suggests Dana Holmes, Family Lifestyle Expert for the Huffington Post. Think of it as a little white lie to throw them off their course so they stop bugging you or scrutinizing your every move. Plus, that will free up a bit more time to actually work on the party you are trying to plan.
