16. Spa Day
Take them on a spa day or have a spa party at home. Set the tone with some meditative music and aromatherapy. You can bring some lotion, facemasks, a footbath, whatever you think might allow your friend to indulge in feeling a little pampered.

17. Come With

If a spouse, parent or child is unavailable, offer to take her to the doctor so she’s not alone. She might appreciate a ride, company in the waiting room or during chemotherapy, or even a hand to hold during a consult. Be careful to respect her privacy and ask how much company she wants.