6. It feels like rejection—over and over.
When you’re not having sex with the person who promised to love you ‘for better or for worse,’ it feels that that vow might not be so true anymore. And when your advances are repeatedly rebuffed, the feeling of rejection can be overwhelming.

5. It can make you consider betraying your values.
If your needs aren’t being met within your marriage, you may consider going elsewhere to feel desirable, sexy and accepted for who you are. This intense need can make even the most committed, honest person consider infidelity.