The bottom line is that there are two sides to this argument: 1) if you have nothing to hide, you can share everything. Or 2) if you trust each other there is no need to share all your secrets. And either way, there are pros and cons. But if you are stressing over whether or not you or your partner are ready to share your passwords, then this could be symbolic of a larger trust issue. Instead of freaking out over the actual password swap, talk openly about your fears and concerns. Because at the end of the day, having access to your partner’s bank account, social media account or email isn’t going to guarantee a healthy relationship. The only things that can guarantee a lasting, loving partnership are trust and respect.