Other women, like Erin Z. of Albuquerque, NM, celebrate Mother’s Day now that they themselves are moms, by honoring themselves and others. Erin travels with her family to Colorado for a mini vacation every year, and invites all of the other moms she knows who have awful mothers. Together, they honor one another and, in a way, fill in for the mothering none of them ever got as kids.
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