Block her on social media for a bit. Not to be mean—to avoid seeing her happy or sad posts. You’ll thank yourself.
Expect cringe moments. You’ll think of her when you hear that song or see her fave cereal. That’s normal. Don’t text “u up?” at 2 AM.
Instead, call your best friend. Eat pizza. Watch a dumb movie. You’ll survive. I promise.
But what if she fights back?
Some people get loud. If she yells, stay calm. Say, “I understand you’re upset, but my decision is made.”
If she tries to guilt you—like, “You’re ruining my life”—don’t buy in. You’re not a villain; you’re just being honest. That’s brave.
If she cries really hard, offer her a tissue. Then exit stage left like a ninja.