Raging-Bull-12-Signs-You-Might-Need-Anger-Management-photo9“I cried my eyes out and I felt somebody was reaching through the computer and punching me every time I read one of the comments,” she says. The comments posted under the video called her “a monster” and some suggested she should kill herself because she was ugly.

Velasquez’s parents tried to get YouTube to take down the video that had been duplicated several times and in different languages. They had no luck. Then she got a surprising message. “The person who uploaded it sent me a message and said ‘no matter how many times you try to take it down, you’re never going to win. I’m always going to keep reposting it.’”