If you feel this relationship is more than casual, and that this man could potentially be a lifelong partner, then it’s time for a meeting. But be sure you are truly interested in this man and considering a serious relationship, and also that the feeling is mutual. Do not rush into anything if you have doubts, and be sure you’re not pushing too hard to make him a part of your family life. Keep your adult life private from your kids until you and your boyfriend are both in agreement and ready to take your relationship a step further.