Most likely, they exchanged polite grunts. “Pass the salt.” “Your brother’s a weirdo.” The usual farm stuff.
But here’s a wild theory: Some true-crime nuts wonder if Ilse encouraged Ed’s dark side. As a way to get rid of Henry? It’s a juicy thought, but there’s zero evidence.
Ilse didn’t even stick around for Ed’s arrest. By the time police found the mess in his house (1957), she was long gone. Living a normal life in another state.
The Quirky, Unanswerable Fun
That’s what makes this topic so delicious. We don’t know! The silence is the punchline. Two people, stuck on a farm, one a serial grave robber, the other a bored housewife.
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Did Ed ever show Ilse his “projects”? Did she ever scream “WHAT IS THAT HUMAN LIPSTICK?!” We can only imagine.
And imagine we must. Because the official records are a black hole. Ilse Gein died in 1971, taking any secrets to her grave.