Dating is hard, and figuring out how to please your partner and work together as a couple can be a challenge for any pair. But if you’re dating a Gemini man, you’re in for an extra challenging task, because this zodiac sign is notoriously indecisive and two-sided—they have two sides to their personality and it can be hard to know which person you’ll be dealing with on any given day or in any given interaction. As per Astrology Zodiac Signs, Gemini individuals, born between May 21st and June 20th, “can be sociable, communicative and ready for fun, while on the other hand it can be very serious, thoughtful, restless and even indecisive.” It makes sense given that the Gemini sign is a set of twins, representing the two sides to a Gemini’s personality. And these twins don’t just imply a split personality—though this zodiac sign definitely does have a somewhat split persona. But it’s more than that; oftentimes, what is believed by others to be a dual personality is really a discrepancy between how the Gemini would like to be seen, and how he really is.