In the first few months of struggling with my Spanish at work, I imagined my Abuela Evelina waving her thick index finger at me from Beyond. She’s the reason I am bilingual. She forced us to speak Spanish en su casa. And only Spanish. Speak English? Outside you go. ¡Pa’ fuera! She literally kicked us out of the house if we spoke English.

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