To save your relationship—yes that same relationship that used to give you a nervous bellyache and make you smile uncontrollably—you need to take care not just of your family, but also of each other. It starts by re-committing to your marriage, and one of the best ways to do that is side-by-side with a healthy pour of Pinot Noir and an even healthier serving of conversation. We’re talking about date night. No kids, no emails and no chit chat about the upcoming parent teacher conferences at school. It’s a night dedicated to you, as a couple, where you can reconnect. Here are 12 reasons why a weekly date night for couples might just save your marriage.