10. Assume a Positive Intent
Yes, you may unleash some deeply buried secrets and sources of anger. You might get caught nitpicking bad habits and you will probably cry. And that’s okau. What is really important here is that you both go into counseling with a positive intent. You are doing this to rebuild a part of your connection that was lost. You are working to fix what is broken and regain a loving relationship you once had. That is your intent. It’s not about yelling or playing the blame game. Never forget the happiness that you are fighting for.