4. Keep yourself busy. Post-breakup is a great time to join a gym, pick up a new hobby or take that girls’ getaway you’ve been talking about for ages. Face it; if you’ve broken up with Mr. Loser over and over again, you probably still have feelings for him. I mean, there was something you liked about him, right? Don’t give yourself time to start missing him. The risk is you’ll grow weak and send that dreaded “Hi” text that opens the floodgates of more reconciliations and subsequent misery. Stay busy. Stay strong.