So there you have it. Don’t just dismiss my letter as me being “Mom” and not understanding. I’ve been in your shoes. And you know I’m right, just as your friends and the rest of your family know he’s not the man for you. Please remember I write with love, and from only wanting the best for you. He is not the one. And as your grandfather used to say (and he said it to me, many times), “I know you don’t want my advice, but I’m giving it anyway.” That’s what we moms get to do with our kids, no matter how old they are.