Here’s the charmingly awkward detail: Joe didn’t know who Taylor was at first. No, really. He later admitted in a British Vogue interview that he walked into the party, saw a group of people playing a word game called “The Big Charade,” and just joined in. He had no idea the blonde in the corner was Taylor Swift. She, however, absolutely knew who he was—she’d seen him in the 2016 film The Sense of an Ending. (Classic Taylor: scouting talent via movie trailers.)
They teamed up for the game. The rules were simple: one person gives a nonsensical clue, the other guesses a word. Joe’s clue? “You’re a museum.” Taylor’s guess? “Um, art?” Wrong. The correct answer was “exhibit.” They lost. But Joe was so funny and unbothered by her star power that Taylor felt an instant spark. She later told The Guardian, “I felt like I’d known him for years.” Ironic, right? She’s met presidents, and the guy who stumps her on a party game becomes her soulmate.
Why This “Boring” Meeting Mattered
Let’s be real: if they’d met at the Oscars, it would’ve been a photo-op disaster. But this no-phones-allowed house party was magical precisely because it was offline. No paparazzi lurking in the hydrangeas. No Instagram stories. Just two people being weird and winning at losing a game. Taylor has written about this moment in songs like “Delicate” (from Reputation)—the line “Dive bar on the East Side, where you at?” is a direct nod to that casual, un-camera-ready vibe. (And yes, there was a dive bar nearby. She’s not joking.)
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Joe later joked that his first memory of her was thinking, “Who is this woman who’s so competitive about a word game?” Meanwhile, Taylor’s first memory was thinking, “Oh, he’s tall and he doesn’t treat me like a spaceship that landed in his living room.” They swapped numbers after the party—but here’s the kicker: she didn’t text him for months. She was too busy with her “Reputation” era, and he was filming The Favourite in London. When she finally reached out, it was a simple, “Hey, it’s Taylor.” He replied, “I know. I’ve been waiting.” Cue the collective “aww” from the entire Swiftie fandom.
