UPDATED April 18th, 2018
May is Date Your Mate Month. But don’t fret—it’s not a run-out-and-scramble to-find-a-card-or-gift Hallmark type of emergency. However, it wouldn’t hurt to spice up things where it really counts—in the sack! As Cher once famously said: Husbands are like fires—they go out when they’re left unattended. And the bedroom is one of the first places where you should consider such tending to. While long-term relationships all aim to share love, laughter and intimacy, keeping the latter alive in a marriage is sometimes the hardest thing to do. Work, children, finances and any number of other factors make it hard to keep the old flame burning. The answer to this common conundrum requires a little creativity, resourcefulness and (ahem) a little loosening up. So why not try some of these sexy ways to surprise your partner in bed?