Losing a pet is like losing a beloved family member. I would know. I recently lost Lucky, my canine companion of 14 years.
When Lucky came to our family he was about 6 weeks old, and I could hold him in the palms of both hands. He was rescued from a street corner, and had a number of health challenges before blossoming into a healthy—and very energetic—puppy! He grew to be a 55-pound energetic and joyful dog. He would greet me at the door every evening when I got home, he was my running companion, and sat at my feet when I was busy writing.
But even more important is what this precious pet meant for my son. I have pictures of them laying together, my son doing his homework, and his ‘brother’ cuddled up with him. Pets bring so many benefits to our lives, from better health to a longer life expectancy, and teach us valuable life lessons and responsibility. Pets give us comfort. But unfortunately, our pets don’t stay around forever.
Lucky was 14 years old when he passed on to that great sheepherding meadow in the sky (he was a herding breed), after a long, full life. But as he got older, we could see his health deteriorating and we knew the end was near. We were fortunate that it happened fairly quickly. We had time to prepare and it didn’t drag out. Not all pet owners are as fortunate. Sometimes the end is quick and unexpected; at times it is agonizing and painful to watch.
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TIPS TO DEAL WITH PET LOSS However it goes, here are some things I learned from my mom—a hospice nurse for many years—that helped in preparing both myself and my son for the passing of our pet.