Dating is hard. Flirting with strangers? Most would say it’s even harder. In our new dating site driven world, flirting in person seems to have become a lost art. Maybe you don’t think you’re sexy enough to attract that cute person’s attention at a bar or coffee shop. The truth is, it’s not necessarily the sexiest people that are the most successful flirts, but those who put in the most effort at flirting and connecting with the others that are. Like most things in life, it takes work to be a master flirt.