Research shows that about 30% of abused or neglected children will become abusers as adults, that 59% are more likely to be arrested as juveniles, and 30% are more likely to commit violent crimes. So ask yourself again. Are you modeling the best possible example for your children at home? If you are not, please take steps today to modify the situation. Whether that means to leave a violent partner, or stop using angry bad words to talk to your kids.