UPDATED June 17th, 2017
If you happen to find yourself between boyfriends, you may not be looking to rush into a serious relationship. But that doesn’t mean you don’t long for some companionship and (safe, responsible) physical affection every now and then. And that’s when having a lover can be the perfect solution. As long as the ground rules are clear—and neither of you is married or in a committed relationship with someone else—you and your lover can enjoy each other’s company and while both having your needs met. In many ways, a lover is a lot less hassle than a boyfriend. Here’s our case for having a lover: 1). You’ll never have to cook him dinner. You and your lover will meet out for dinner and drinks (his treat), then go back to his place for, ahem, dessert. It’s simple, uncomplicated, and there are no dishes to wash afterwards.
2). You’ll never have to meet his mother. This isn’t going to get serious, so there’s no need to meet parents, attend a niece’s graduation or a nephew’s birthday party, or wonder if your mother is going to like him.